Chapter 006: Goodness of Life-partner (Vizhiyappan's Translation)

பால்: 1 - அறம்; இயல்: 02 - இல்லறவியல்;  அதிகாரம்: 006 - இல்வாழ்க்கை
Division: 1 - Ethics; Section: 02 - Family Ethics; Chapter: 006 - Goodness of Life-partner

0051.  மனைத்தக்க மாண்புடையள் ஆகித்தற் கொண்டான்
           வளத்தக்காள் வாழ்க்கைத் துணை

           Dignified spouse adjusts the income
           to efficiently lead family

           Vizhiyappan's Commentary: Possessing the dignity of family-life and having the
           aptitude to lead family within the life-partner's income - are the speciality of a
           spouse.

(Likewise...)

           Pursuing the professional-ethics and doing a large-scale business to benefit the
           customers too - are the characteristics of an industrialist.

0052.  மனைமாட்சி இல்லாள்கண் இல்லாயின் வாழ்க்கை
           எனைமாட்சித் தாயினு மில்

           A spouse without "family dignity"
           nullifies all prides

           Vizhiyappan's Commentary: A family-life that has a spouse who do not have the
           family-ethics; will not become the best despite having many other prides.

(Likewise...)

           The youngsters who follow someone who do not have humane; will not be useful
           despite having many other talents.

0053.  இல்லதென் இல்லவள் மாண்பானால் உள்ளதென்
           இல்லவள் மாணாக் கடை

           What's impossible with dignified spouse?
           What's possible with undignified?

           Vizhiyappan's Commentary: What will be unavailable in a family, if a spouse pursue
           good family-ethics and good attitude? What will be available, if a spouse is not so?

(Likewise...)

           What cannot be cultivated in a farmland, if good soil and water-resource combine
           together? What can be cultivated, if they do not combine?

0054.  பெண்ணின் பெருந்தக்க யாவுள கற்பென்னும் 
           திண்மையுண் டாகப் பெறின்

           What's excellent than a woman
           whose heart is virgin?

           Vizhiyappan's Commentary: If a woman is persistent to maintain the virginity of her
           heart; what can be more excellent than her?

(Likewise...)

           If a human-being is zealous to pursue ethics even in thought process; what can be
           superior to human-being?

0055.  தெய்வம் தொழாஅள் கொழுநன் தொழுதெழுவாள் 
           பெய்யெனப் பெய்யும் மழை

           Spouse, who worship their better-half;
           can control the rain

           Vizhiyappan's Commentary: A spouse who wakes up and worship the better-half,
           instead of the almighty; can have the power to control even the rain.

(Likewise...)

           Those who tend to value the heart, rather than the money; can have the ability to
           mesmerise anyone around them.

0056.  தற்காத்துத் தற்கொண்டாற் பேணித் தகைசான்ற 
           சொற்காத்துச் சோர்விலாள் பெண்

           Spouse should tirelessly care themselves
           and their dependents

           Vizhiyappan's Commentary: Those who tirelessly, take care of themselves and their
           dependents to preserve the glory of family - are called spouse.

(Likewise...)

           Those who do not fail in protecting themselves and the people to establish the ethics
           of democracy - are called the rulers.

0057.  சிறைகாக்கும் காப்புஎவன் செய்யும் மகளிர்
           நிறைகாக்கும் காப்பே தலை

           Not the confinement; "thought-freedom" alone
           can ensure women's entirety

           Vizhiyappan's Commentary: What can be achieved by the "prison-like" custody?
           Granting the "thought-freedom" is vital in the process of women's entirety.

(Likewise...)

           What can be changed through the "strict-laws"? Establishing the "self-discipline" is
           first step in nurturing the humanity of society.
 
0058.  பெற்றார் பெறின்பெறுவர் பெண்டிர் பெருஞ்சிறப்புப் 
           புத்தேளிர் வாழும் உலகு

           Women, who have husband's warmth,
           are admired as angels

           Vizhiyappan's Commentary: Women, those who have the warmth of their husband,
           will be admired as special as the angels living in heaven.

(Likewise...)

           Leaders, those who have the affection of their followers, will be in the elite list of
           legends who made history.

0059.  புகழ்புரிந்த இல்லிலோர்க்கு இல்லை இகழ்வார்முன் 
           ஏறுபோல் பீடு நடை

           Without having an efficient wife, one
           can't walk like lion

           Vizhiyappan's Commentary: If one do not have an efficient wife, who brings glory to
           a family; then, they cannot walk like a lion - in front of others.

(Likewise...)

           If one do not possess ethics, which keeps the heart peaceful; then, they cannot
           argue like intellectuals - against the critics.

0060.  மங்கலம் என்ப மனைமாட்சி மற்றுஅதன் 
           நன்கலம் நன்மக்கட் பேறு

           Wife is family's beauty; children
           are the ornaments

           Vizhiyappan's Commentary: The dignity of a wife is the beauty of a family! The
           disciplined children she give birth to, are the best ornaments to enhance that beauty.

(Likewise...)

           The individual discipline is the soul of a society! The best ethics seeded by that
           discipline, are the organs to keep that soul alive.

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Link: Explanation in Tamil