Any relationship that is based on the two-distincts called "Man/Woman" is always troublesome. Probably, there can be no relationship in which a woman do not criticise like "his spouse has not fulfilled (m)any of her expectations". It can be "Love/Marriage/Illegal-affair" - but such criticism will remain consistent. Though it is a wrong relationship, the reason for including illegal-affair is that it is still a relationship. People who have robbery as their profession, when joint together to make a combined effort - they still need to pursue the "Professional Ethics". They should NOT cheat each other and they should NOT rob other's properties. It is same with the illegal-affair too.
The criticisms like aforementioned are mainly based on "the expectation of love from the respective spouse". Further, everyone is aware of the common-sense that "men cannot express love"; and there is a fact in it. This write-up is a sincere attempt to analyse that aspect. It is well known that man do express love before entering into a relationship, probably more than a woman do. However, after having entered into the relationship - he either fails to express his love or he could not really express it. I used to say very often that, after entering into the relationship, a man do approach love based on sex. Probably, many men do not even know that there is a love behind "that" sex.
Very definitely, this is nature! That said, this write-up is not to justify the act of men. Rather, I am trying to understand as what can be the reason for a man to deviate from the love he had with his woman. There are some cases, where this deviation occur due to an affair with another woman or similar such reasons. They are in a different category allotter; I do not consider any of those categories in this analysis. This is entirely based on the men who naturally get deviated from the love. As aforementioned, such men do express their love through sex. So, in my opinion, the reason for not directly expressing the love is that men do move towards the next step/stage of the...
relationship. If it is love, men tend to plan the marriage and family. If it is marriage, men will attempt to execute their thoughts. Further, they need to think ahead concerning having children and their growth. Even if it is an illegal-affair, he tends to think about the effect of such affair. He cannot easily overcome it since the situation will remind him even if he forgets; that is what an illegal-affair is, which has to be kept secret. And the bitter truth is men are poor in defending the secrets; many will not try to defend it. That is why a woman could easily make the man to blather whatever secret he may have. So, he will always be in a fear with pressure, and many men could not handle it.
Moreover, majority of men will approach such affairs as a drainage to their sexual feelings. But, the can easily woman approach it like the normal relationship. So, whatever may be the case, men do not have such comfort as the women do. I am not pretty sure if this is correct or incorrect - but that's how it is. I do not mean that women do not think about the lateral stages of a relationship; even the last generation women had such thought process. But, the men around them (not necessarily a lover/husband - it can be even father/brother and so on) do make sure that women are kept away from such struggles. So, in my view, it is the situation that keeps the men to be "non expressive".
The criticisms like aforementioned are mainly based on "the expectation of love from the respective spouse". Further, everyone is aware of the common-sense that "men cannot express love"; and there is a fact in it. This write-up is a sincere attempt to analyse that aspect. It is well known that man do express love before entering into a relationship, probably more than a woman do. However, after having entered into the relationship - he either fails to express his love or he could not really express it. I used to say very often that, after entering into the relationship, a man do approach love based on sex. Probably, many men do not even know that there is a love behind "that" sex.
Very definitely, this is nature! That said, this write-up is not to justify the act of men. Rather, I am trying to understand as what can be the reason for a man to deviate from the love he had with his woman. There are some cases, where this deviation occur due to an affair with another woman or similar such reasons. They are in a different category allotter; I do not consider any of those categories in this analysis. This is entirely based on the men who naturally get deviated from the love. As aforementioned, such men do express their love through sex. So, in my opinion, the reason for not directly expressing the love is that men do move towards the next step/stage of the...
relationship. If it is love, men tend to plan the marriage and family. If it is marriage, men will attempt to execute their thoughts. Further, they need to think ahead concerning having children and their growth. Even if it is an illegal-affair, he tends to think about the effect of such affair. He cannot easily overcome it since the situation will remind him even if he forgets; that is what an illegal-affair is, which has to be kept secret. And the bitter truth is men are poor in defending the secrets; many will not try to defend it. That is why a woman could easily make the man to blather whatever secret he may have. So, he will always be in a fear with pressure, and many men could not handle it.
Moreover, majority of men will approach such affairs as a drainage to their sexual feelings. But, the can easily woman approach it like the normal relationship. So, whatever may be the case, men do not have such comfort as the women do. I am not pretty sure if this is correct or incorrect - but that's how it is. I do not mean that women do not think about the lateral stages of a relationship; even the last generation women had such thought process. But, the men around them (not necessarily a lover/husband - it can be even father/brother and so on) do make sure that women are kept away from such struggles. So, in my view, it is the situation that keeps the men to be "non expressive".
If one ask like "will it not last ever?"
It will, definitely! And every man's life will end so!!
Is it so? When? How?...
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